Executive Annual Check Up With Kids in Tow

Guijo at Makati Med's Corporate Wellness Center

Growing up, I didn't go for annual executive check-ups.  My mom was a firm believer in the body's natural ability to heal itself, so she was not dependent on medicine.  I was raised under my mother's careful watch, and healed by her own touch whenever I got sick - and her healing hands always proved effective (and sometimes we'd go to the manghihilot too). I don't remember being hospitalized, only when I was very young - my mother recalls - but then again I was too young to remember being confined for measles. It was only when I started working and studying abroad that executive check-ups became a regular occurence for me, as required by employers and schools.  Then, I married Oliver - and it seems in our first couple of years together, I've seen doctors and hospitals A LOT, for pregnancy-related consultations (that's the happy part), and for sickness in the family (the sad part). When Oliver lost his brother to cancer in 2011, we stared taking our annual check-ups seriously.  In 2011, it was just Oliver and I who did the executive check-up, in 2012 we took Narra with us; and now, 2013, we brought Guijo along too!

It was Guijo's first time to join us for our annual executive check-up at Makati Medical Center because he had to be 2 years old to qualify for coverage under Maxicare's Family health plan. I say, his day at the hospital went really well! He loved meeting so many doctors, nurses, and lab technicians. He was curious about all the equipment and instruments. He complied readily with all instructions, it was entertaining to watch! He was thrilled to submit his urine and stool samples - as though it was some sort of achievement (well, it is!) 

Guijo, getting weighed and measured.

                                       

Guijo was well prepared for the day. He even fasted! He had no food since the previous night's dinner, and didn't even drink milk. When it was his turn to have his ultrasound, the techbologist was surprised to see proof that his tummy was empty: "he fasted too?!" She exclaimed. "Galling naman".  He was so well behaved and relaxed. He looked at the screen at one point and asked if there was a monster in his belly :-) I did ask if they could find parasites like worms, if they'd show in the ultrasound, and I was told sometimes they enter the gallbladder and their presence can be detected through abdominal sonography! Yikes!  Fortunately, no worms we're seen in my kids' tummies.

Guijo, chilling out while having his ultrasound.

                                     

Narra asked for a blood test. Oliver wanted to skip the blood extraction for our kids, and I made sure Narra knew it was optional, but she insisted! She wanted the doctors to study her blood to make sure she is not a vampire! She didn't look away throughout the procedure and she gloated about her bravery all day long! 

Narra looking at her blood extraction.

With a skip and a hop she breezed through the busy corridors of the hospital to get her X-Ray, ultrasound, and ECG at the Heart Station.  She enjoyed doing the eye tests too - because she can already read letters and numbers! She did the test to see if she's color-blind: it's confirmed, she can see colors all right!

Narra's ECG at the Heart Station.

                                        

We had to consult many other doctors after our initial physical exam: I had to see an OB (and yet another OB to confirm/validate the first OB's diagnosis); I was referred by both to do further tests at the Breast Clinic; Narra had to see an Orthopedic specialist; and Guijo had to see a pediatric surgeon.  Fortunately, my tests came clear (whew); Narra was given  exercises to correct her pigeon-toe/intoeing; and Guijo - well, he was diagnosed with inguinal and umbilical hernias and both require surgery. So we'll study our options, consult our pediatrician, and plan our next steps for Guijo.

While waiting for our ultrasound.

                                     

I'm glad we did our annual check-up as a family - it was a fun bonding experience. And I felt proud of my kids and how well they behaved and socialized with doctors and medical staff. I hope we can continue this yearly tradition - it's a great way of infusing routine procedures with a greater sense of meaning. I am reminded to watch my health because I want to be around for my precious children, for a very long time. 

This new tradition I want to sustain for my family is a departure from my mother's more natural approach to health care... but I plan to honor her ways, by offering my own hands as a first line of defense against aches and pains.  I can only hope to be as caring as my mother was, with her healing touch and abundant TLC.  In an age of cancer, though, I believe prevention and early detection are our best defense - so I embrace a new tradition for my family, and hope my kids will grow up with a sense of obligation to perform this annual ritual.

How Much It Cost To Give Birth: The Anatomy of Our Hospital Bill

How much does it cost to give birth at Makati Medical Center? There is no straightforward way to answer this question because it depends on the particular birthing situation of each individual, but I will attempt to try to give a detailed description of what my bill looked like to help other pregnant women out there who are looking for info. My total bill was 7-pages long, with a summary on the first page, and a detailed list of all the things I paid for. If I were to simplify the components of the bill, I'd say they could be divided into the following categories: 1) Delivery Room Charges; 2) Room & Board; 3) Nursery; 4) Pharmacy, Central Supplies and Lab Tests; and 5) Professional Fees.

Signing paperwork in the birthing room.    
Delivery Room Charges constitute a huge part of the hospital bill.

1) Delivery Room Charges: This includes the use of the birthing room, the cost of using equipment, and all the materials and supplies used.  For 2 hours, the birthing room costs P3,465, with an additional P462 for every succeeding hour.  I used the delivery room for 2 hours preparation and 2 hours recovery, and 4 hours for labor, for a total of 8 hours (which means I paid P2,772 on top of the P3,465). Every companion you bring in also has a charge of P578/person.  I know of people who were in labor for much longer, and brought in more companions - so the cost of using the birthing room depends on how cooperative your cervix is :-D In addition, if you decide to use an epidural, you pay for the anesthesia (I paid P2,800); Then there's the use of equipment, such as the fetal monitor (P950), Infusion Pump (P808), Suction and Warmer (P800), and a host of other things like Criticare (P4,000), OB-Pack (P2,385), Espocan (P2,055), Supplies (P3,950), Sterile Instruments Pouch (P1,557), and for a Spontaneous Vaginal Delivery there's a fee of (P3,750). The rest of the bill listed small items like booties, gowns, thermometers, gloves etc. My total delivery room charges reached P30,000. I imagine it would cost more for a C-section. I got the biggest and nicest birthing room, so maybe there are cheaper options.

2) Room & Board: There's a range of options for private rooms, from the Small Private Room in the old wing (P3,220), to the newly renovated rooms (P4,700 or P5,200 depending on amenities). Cheaper than the small private would be the ward and semi-private options, but if you want privacy, the small private room is the most affordable option.  Those who want better rooms can opt for the large private rooms, or suites. A 3-day stay in a small private room can cost 9,660 - 15,600 depending on the room you choose. Some women choose to stay only 2 days, but with babies waiting for their newborn screening test to be administered 48 hours after birth, a 3-day stay is recommended, especially if mothers want to breast feed round-the-clock.  My room and board bill was at P9,660.  

Nursery Room & Board (P1,500/day). If your baby needs to be in the ICU it will cost more (P4,900/day).

3) Nursery Fees: Room and Board for the baby costs P1,500/day, and a typical stay is 3 days or P4,500. Other Nursery-related expenses include: the nursery service fee (P2,500), transport incubator (P500), and since we had our baby boy circumcised, we paid extra for the use of the circumcision room (P1,000), and use of radiant warmer to help heal his circ faster (P1,000). There were other items in the bill, such as the vaccination (P250 for the BCG), use of a BP Monitor (P240). The total costs reached around P10,000.  Note: If your baby has an infection, or is suspected to have one, a stay in the Neonatal ICU may be in order, in which case the costs would be different. The daily rate in the NICU is P4,900/day, and if your baby has sepsis, a 7-day stay to run a full course of antibiotics is the usual protocol - this may mean an additional P35,000 to your total bill, on room and board alone, not including the cost of tests and meds.

4) Pharmacy, Central Supplies and Lab Tests: Pharmacy. For my 3-day stay I had to use a number of medicines, from the oxytocin used to speed up labor, to the pain killers and antibiotics which were given to me round the clock by the nurses.  In addition to the medicine I needed, there was the stuff for the baby such as Terramycin eye ointment (P750), Sterile water, Lactacyd baby bath wash etc. The total bill from the pharmacy: P6,245. Then there was the bill from Central Supplies: Everything I used, from cotton balls to the "tabo" (dipper), bed pads and alcohol, to latex gloves, as well as the things baby needed - which is part of a newborn starter kit (P1,941)...all these are sourced from central supplies and in my case, added up to a total of nearly P4,000.   And finally, baby's Lab Tests: We had a lab fee for blood typing (P529), Hearing Test to check baby's hearing (P550), Newborn screening test for some dangerous diseases (600),    All three combined (Pharmacy, Central Supplies and Lab Tests) cost around P12,000.

My total hospital bill for Delivery, Room and Board, Nursery Fees, and Pharmacy/Central Supplies/Tests reached nearly P65,000 pesos, excluding professional fees.

5) Professional Fees: In my case, I had to pay 4 professional fees, namely: First, my OB's fees for delivering my baby; Second, my Anesthesiologist's fees for the epidural; Third, my Pediatrician's fees; and finally, my OB's fees for my baby's circumcision. The combined total of all my professional fees cost more than the hospital bill I outlined above. Without getting into detail, I suspect that the professional fees I paid were rather on the high side, but I knew this beforehand since this is my second baby to be delivered by the same team - I was just very happy with my OB and Anesthesiologist because my experience with them was textbook perfect, with absolutely no complications, and I am also super happy with my pediatrician.  It is hard to benchmark prof fees because it will depend on the specifics of your situation and your baby's. One way to find out the range of fees charged by your doctor is to ask from someone who's worked with them before, or, ask the secretary who schedules their appointments and ultimately prepares their receipts.

I understand that Makati Med has birthing packages that pegs both Normal and C-section deliveries within a particular price range, these are published in an info sheet available at the Admissions office in the ground floor. Not all doctors in Makati Med do these packages. If you're keen on delivering in Makati Med and would want to keep within budget, look for a Makati Med practitioner that does the package. The room for the package is semi-private.  If however, you are keen on working with a particular doctor, and that doctor you choose does not do the hospital birthing package, be prepared to pay more. (If you need a ball park figure just so you know how to plan and prepare, I figure that setting aside P150,000 should be sufficient for a normal delivery, this would leave you with enough elbow room for a few extras - like circumcision if you're having a boy - or a safety fund for in case your baby has an infection and would need to stay longer in the hospital).   

So how much would it cost to give birth in Makati Med these days? After my very long, and detailed sharing of my experience, I'd still say: it depends. It depends on how fast your labor is, and whether you'd deliver normally or via C-section, and how expensive your Professional fees are, what kind of room you get, and whether your baby will require more expenses (either for an infection, or for an extra procedure like circumcision).

Related Posts:

On Our Baby's Circumcision: A Mother's Point Of View
http://nikki-mama.blogspot.com/2011/09/on-our-babys-circumcision-mothers-point.html

Enjoyable Delivery at Makati Medical Center
http://nikki-mama.blogspot.com/2011/09/enjoyable-delivery-at-makati-medical.html

The Difference Between Caring for Baby Girls and Boys

The  photo above shows our first born baby girl Narra having an enjoyable bath. We thought we'd have the same experience with our second child, our baby boy Guijo. We were excited to give him his first bath and we were enjoying the process, that is, until.... he sprayed us!!!  It took a few more swift, sudden spraying incidents before I learned to never ever let my guard down again.  With Narra, I could just have her lying on her back on the bath bed, and I didn't worry about her peeing, but with Guijo, hah!, I now have a few strategies in place so I'd always be ready to dodge. 

First method: blocking! Always have a washcloth or lampin (cloth diaper) on top of his launcher whenever he's on his back for bathing or diaper changing.  Second method: redirection! Turn him to his side when washing or wiping his bottom - this will redirect his urine's trajectory to the walls of the tub and away from his face, or yours. Third method: direct contact! When it's time to clean his privates and covering him with a washcloth or turning him to the side just won't work, hold his "lil pututoy" down while cleaning the area.

Learning to care for a baby boy when you've become accustomed to caring for a baby girl is akin to learning to keep your arms up defensively to cover your face in boxing - it takes practice and getting used to - you need to develop a constant consciousness to never let your guard down or you'll get a beating.  I remember waking up in the wee hours of the morning to change Guijo's diaper - and I became complacent. It happened so fast - I had to change not just his diaper, but also his booties, mittens, and blanket, as well as the pillow case nearby - I had a changing mat under him of course - but the thing with penile trajectories is that they can have an unpredictable reach. 

The household I grew up in only had baby girls and never baby boys, so my mother had little advice to give on the subject of caring for a boy. My Auntie Eva, who raised 3 boys herself, gave me a few helpful pointers on Pinoy-style care for baby boys: first, she thought me to position the baby's penis downwards during diaper changes so that the baby doesn't wet his navel or cord stump; second, I should regularly massage my baby's balls! - apparently, as Filipino folk practice goes, conscientious mothers rub their hands to warm their palms, and gently cup their baby's balls and push them upwards towards the belly in the belief that doing so would prevent hernias, and prevent the balls from becoming "luslos" (an aesthetically unappealing condition of having sagging balls). A third prescription came from another relative, my Auntie Myrna, who taught me of a specific hold for carrying boys, holding them upright, one hand on the crotch, and the other supporting the upper body. This carrying position has the same objective - to prevent "luslos" and hernias.

I don't know if I will pass for a conscientious mother by Pinoy folk standards... I sure have a lot to learn. I thought that after having seen Narra through infancy in the recent past, raising Guijo would be a walk in the park.  Not so. There are differences between caring for baby girls and boys, and I am feeling like a rookie all over again.   

Our Baby's Circumcision: A Mother's Point of View

There is a wealth of information on neonatal circumcision available online, and there are robust debates on the pros and cons of subjecting babies to the procedure. Despite the availability of info, I found myself lost and confused and unsure about making a stand on the subject, and I was all too willing at some point to just leave it up to my husband to decide for our son.  Before giving birth, I just pushed the topic aside - but a day after Guijo arrived, on August 20, when Guijo was a day old, our pediatrician Dr. Pia Lorenzo, asked us THE question: to clip or not to clip?

I asked Doc Pia many pertinent questions, and fortunately, I was given a lot of straightforward and relevant answers which ultimately helped me form a stand. By the end of our conversation, I was convinced to go for the circ. The next day, August 21, 24 hours before we were discharged from the hospital, Guijo went for his circ, and I watched the entire procedure from preparation to recovery.  I wanted to make sure I was nearby in case I was needed for breast feeding to comfort him.

One of the questions I asked Doc Pia was: how will the procedure be done? She gave a comprehensive explanation of various methods available in the US (I won't mention them all here), focusing on the Gomco method which will be used on Guijo.  Neonatal circumcision with the use of a Gomco clamp is usually quick and effective and results in very little bleeding. In addition, Doc Pia explained to us that after the procedure, they will take some time for exposing Guijo under a lamp and his wounds would be dry before we take him home.

Who would do the procedure? was my next question. Doc Pia highly recommended our gynecologist Dr. Theresa Henson, as someone who does the procedure perfectly. This was very reassuring news for me. I already trusted Dr. Henson with my life - so as far as I was concerned, if anyone was going to touch our "family jewels" it would be her! Dr. Henson had a very well established practice and had a spotless reputation which was cultivated through years of exceptional work. Circumcision is an elective cosmetic procedure, one that has an aesthetic dimension, as well as real medical risks. We needed someone precise and authoritative.  Truth be told, part of my decision to go for the circ was influenced by the knowledge that it was Dr. Henson who would do the procedure. I trusted her a great deal. If I waited until my son was a pre-teen to do the procedure I wasn't sure if I'd meet a doctor with whom I'd share the same level of trust.

How will my son be handled? Dr. Pia assured me that careful research went into the handling of infants before, during, and after the circ. Everything was studied, how to swaddle them in ways that best provided reassurance and comfort.  I saw this for myself when I watched them prepare Guijo for the procedure (see photo above).  They first swaddled his upper body snugly, to inhibit hand and arm movement, but also to make him feel secure.  They elevated the upper body slightly, and his legs were positioned in a spread-eagle, using folded swaddling blankets tucked firmly under a specially designed board, as restraints.  He looked snug, and securely positioned in place.  Then he was moved to the circumcision room where the operation took place. There was a glass panel from which I could view the proceedings. In typical Dr. Henson fashion, she wielded the Gomco clamp expertly, and worked fast. When the actual clipping took place, Guijo cried and immediately, a pacifier with sugary water was put in his mouth, and I saw him suckle at it vigorously.  He stopped crying in an instant - the diversionary tactic worked! Guijo seemed more focused on the taste and new sensation offered by the pacifier. It was around 11:05 am when they started, and by 11:15 he was being transfered back to the nursery. It was done quickly and I'd say Guijo was handled perfectly. He was exposed under a lamp for a couple of hours, for drying time and recovery.  Afterwards, I was summoned to breast feed him.

When Dr. Pia examined Guijo the next day to clear him so he may be discharged from the hospital, she inspected the circ and said it has healed really well, it looks really good, and it was done perfectly. A week later, when we rushed Guijo to the hospital for an infection, we were worried the circ had something to do with it, but all the doctors who took a look at him that week (there were around half a dozen of them), were uniform in their assessment that the circ was done really well, has healed completely, and is in no way whatsoever related to the infection Guijo had, which was from the Staph Aureus bacteria, a very common bacteria which infected his cord stump.  Whew!

On a lighter note, Dr. Pia told us she's seen a lot of penises in her pediatric practice, and not all circs are created equal - some are prettier than others - and according to her, those done by Dr. Henson are some of the prettiest ones around! This brings to mind the traditional summer time practice of gathering the village boys by the riverside where they would form a line, be made to chew on guava leaves, and their tips would be clipped one by one, quickly and efficiently - with little regard for aesthetics. It's a rite of passage that many parents wouldn't deny their kids. I hope my son doesn't hold in me in contempt for denying him his spot on the chopping line - but in case he questions my decision one day, I'll tell him that if one were decided on going for a circ, might as well do it pretty, precise, and (relatively) painless.

Our Baby in the Hospital for Jaundice and Sepsis

3 days after giving birth to our second child Guillermo Jose or "Guijo", we were discharged from Makati Medical Center. It was Monday, 22nd of August 2011, and we were simply overjoyed. He was an easy baby to care for and we quickly established our feeding routine. A week later on August 29, we noticed a change in his demeanor - he was lethargic and didn't want to feed. After a quick call to my sis-in-law Dr. Winnie Carsi Cruz Cruda, a pediatrician, we were adviced to seek medical attention.

Apparently, with neonates, or newborns, symptoms can be very subtle, so it's best not to leave things to chance. An infection that is left undetected may spread to the blood so parents must act fast. I found myself very worried at how limp he felt in my arms, at how unresponsive he was - he wouldn't cry or even offer a feeble grunt in protest when his nappy was changed. He clamped his mouth shut and wouldn't feed. I knew that breast feeding created an opportunity for an infant's immune system to plug into its mother's more mature system - I could provide some protection for Guijo by sharing some of my antibodies with him and helping him fight an infection - but this can only happen if he actually feeds from me! Those two symptoms - unresponsiveness and poor feeding were enough red flags.

Guijo undergoing phototherapy for jaundice at St. Luke's.

FROM OUR HOME TO ST. LUKE'S

My husband Oliver suggested we go to St. Luke's Medical Center at the Global City in Fort Bonifacio. While I was happy with the quality of care at Makati Med, it was not very convenient in terms of location, due to the traffic, and parking issues (no overnight parking for instance). The E.R. was simply heaven! The pediatric section of the E.R. was spacious, and secluded, and squeaky clean. But as hospital policy goes, a baby as young as Guijo had to be confined at the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit or NICU. We left Guijo at the NICU at around 3 am, and we returned a few hours later to meet with our doctor. A lot of tests were administered to diagnose Guijo, and we had to wait for results. In the meantime, he underwent phototherapy for jaundice. He was yellowish when we took him to the hospital. Another suspect was a discharge found in his cord stump. Tests determined that there was indeed an infection and we needed to rule out (or anticipate and treat for) the possibility of sepsis. This meant waiting for more conclusive results from the blood culture test, which takes several days. Our doctor told us Guijo had to complete a course of antibiotics which lasts for 7 days. Whether sepsis was confirmed or not, we had to follow standard protocols, act conservatively, and start with treatment.

When we found out we had to stay for such a long time we asked if we can take Guijo out of the NICU and have him complete his course of antibiotics in a regular hospital room where I can stay with him and breastfeed conveniently. As it was, I was going back and forth from my house to the hospital, even in the wee hours of the morning, to breastfeed Guijo, and since I had just given birth, the arrangement was taking its toll on me. I was just getting so tired, and it hurt when I walked too far, or sat too long. Our pediatrician was sympathetic to us and was willing to allow us to transfer out of the NICU, but hospital policy prevented us from doing so. Oliver advised me to look for a hospital which has a different policy, one that would allow rooming-in with our baby. We found out The Medical City in Ortigas would allow such an arrangement, and so we started processing our discharge from St. Luke's.

FROM ST. LUKE'S TO MEDICAL CITY

Out of the NICU and in a regular room at Medical City.
The family gets to visit Guijo in comfort.

We felt confident that Guijo could already be moved out of the NICU, and out of St. Luke's because of encouraging improvements in his condition. He gained weight, his skin color looked good, he screamed loudly when hungry, and gave grown-up-sized burps when full. Our pediatrician at St. Luke's, Dr. Ruth Valeriano, was super helpful. She wrote detailed information I could give to the receiving staff at Medical City. So on Sept. 1, after 3 days at St. Luke's, we moved Guijo out of the NICU a little after lunch time.

By 2 pm, we were at Medical City's E.R. and I was in for a shock - the place was packed with sick people, and the pediatric ward, in particular, seemed bursting at the seams with worried parents rushing their kids to the E.R. because of a widespread dengue scare. The situation at their E.R. was in stark contrast to the heavenly seclusion we enjoyed at St. Luke's. I became very worried for my fragile 2-week old son. The E.R. was full because the rooms in the hospital's pediatric floor were all full as well, and there was a long waiting list to get one. Some of the parents I talked to told me they have been at the E.R. for quite a while, some have been there since dawn, and one parent claimed they've been there since the previous night. Scared by their stories, I found myself requesting the nurse to admit Guijo to the NICU! What irony! We took him to Medical City because we wanted him out of the NICU, and we find ourselves requesting to be returned to the NICU! I just wanted to get out of that congested E.R. as soon as possible and reduce Guijo's exposure.

So Guijo was admitted in the NICU and we had ourselves wait-listed for a regular room. By 8 pm, we received news that a room had become available in a non-pediatric floor, and since our pediatrician specified that we must be on the pediatric floor, we had to wait some more. Fortunately by 10 pm, we already had a room on the pediatric floor, we just had to wait for Guijo to be brought to us from the NICU. After a long day of dealing with hospital procedures, it was sheer bliss to finally get to lie down and rest and have my baby in the room with me.

The next few days went by quickly. Guijo was already better and we were just waiting for the course of antibiotics to be completed. His meds had to be administered to him via an IV drip so he couldn't move around to much and needed to be under constant monitoring by nurses, but other than the discomfort of the heplock attached to him, Guijo was in perfect form. The hospital stay gave me a chance to rest and recover as well. As I was tasked to watch Guijo the whole time, I had a chance to focus only on caring for him, feeding-nappy change-burping-bathing. It was a blessing that my parents offered to watch my eldest child Narra, whom I love dearly, but whose energy level I could not yet keep up with given my sleepless state and post-labor aches and pains.

On September 5, Monday, 2 weeks after we brought him home from Makati Med, we brought him home again this time from Medical City, with a clean bill of health! 3 weeks and 3 hospitals...it's been quite a ride. Seeing Guijo healthy though, is worth all the effort.

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Enjoyable Delivery at Makati Medical Center
http://nikki-mama.blogspot.com/2011/09/enjoyable-delivery-at-makati-medical.html

A Simple Celebration of Baby's First Birthday
http://nikki-mama.blogspot.com/2011/09/simple-celebration-of-babys-1st-month.html

Enjoyable Delivery at Makati Medical Center

August 19, 2011. Dra. Henson helps me deliver Guijo!

I gave birth to both my babies Narra (born May 7 2009) and Guijo (born August 19 2011) at Makati Medical Center, and I enjoyed the birthing process immensely, both times! The words "labor" and "enjoy" don't usually come together, but I seem to be a lucky person, so birthing came easy for me (and I have the photos to prove it!). For both of my deliveries, I was smiling from start to finish. But before you think I was born with superwoman birthing powers, I'd have to give credit where it is due: to an excellent team of medical professionals at Makati Med!

May 7, 2009. In labor with Narra.  With Dra. Henson and
Dr. De Jesus behind her. 

It starts with my OB-Gyne Dr. Maria Theresa Henson. She was very highly recommended to me by my friends RJ and Vanessa Ledesma when they were also infanticipating a couple of years ago. I've already met with several Obstetricians and I was searching for "the one" and when I met Dra. Henson, I immediately became a fan. She has this assertive personality that I found very reassuring - she was so confident and eloquent, thorough in her methods, and comprehensive while concise in giving me answers to my questions during consultations. And when it was "showtime" in the delivery room, she had such authoritative command, she had her no-nonsense game face on - and I just knew I was in very good hands.

Dra. Henson seemed particular about who she wants to work with, most especially when it comes to the anesthesiologist. My husband preferred St. Luke's newer facilities and excellent location and was hoping Dra. Henson would agree to have us deliver there instead of Makati Med, but she was firm in stating her preference to work with her "home" team, and with her most trusted anesthesiologist. For both my children, I was in the capable hands of Dr. Gerard De Jesus who had such a steady hand in administering the epidural that all my fears of possible risks and complications were put to rest. Like Dra. Henson, Dr. De Jesus exuded a very authoritative presence. I've heard of horror stories from other women about how their epidurals didn't work out perfectly, and I just thanked my lucky stars mine did. It seems to me that administering anesthesia is not just a science, but also an art, and when done well, it leads to a marvelous birthing experience.

There's a nice sofa and tv inside the room, for companions.

Back in 2009, I gave birth in the old delivery floor where I was first put up in a birthing room then transfered to an OR, then wheeled back to the birthing room for recovery. Now in 2011, we used the newly constructed birthing suites located in another wing of the hospital. I had Birthing Room No. 3, which was spacious, well-appointed, sparkling clean, and comfortable. Preparation, actual delivery, and recovery all took place in the birthing room, and my husband Oliver (and anyone else I would have wanted around) could accompany me through the entire process in comfort. There was a comfy sofa and t.v. on one side of the room where companions could station themselves. The bathroom was also huge, a big plus when you're hooked to an IV drip and have to roll the cumbersome stand along with you when you need to do your business.

A lot of space, and a big bathroom on one end of the room.

When it was time to give birth, I was amazed at how the room transformed in an instant to an OR as equipment were rolled in. The spacious room accommodated teams of doctors and nurses: my OB and her team; the anesthesiologist and his team; the pediatrician and her team, and the equipment they needed to do their job. It was like watching a champion basketball team executing a winning play - everyone's in position - doing their part expertly - with no fumbling about. They kept their composure, and with effortless elegance, I saw myself and my baby being handled with what seemed to me like the best possible medical care available in the world. With every gesture, the entire medical staff, from the doctors down to the nursing aides reeked of experience.

Accommodating nurses at the nursery: they even turned Guijo's head
to face our cameras when my family requested to view him. I heard in
some hospitals, they don't even allow photos (like in Medical City).

And most importantly, the proceedings did not feel cold and clinical. On the contrary, there was a distinct Filipino touch to all of it, a warm and caring approach that makes me proud to be Pinoy! People to took time to chat with me, to smile at me, or touch me in a reassuring and comforting way, and when the awaited moment of actual delivery of the baby happened - my precious child was first presented to me, shown to me, and delivered to my arms, before all other medical protocols were started. I did not feel like some passive patient who was alienated from the entire experience. I felt like a central player in the game, a part of their team. I felt numb from the epidural, but I was coached to push like my life depended on it, and push I did, till my eyeballs felt like they would be squeezed into my skull. And when our bundle of joy arrived, there was a triumphant feeling! The epidural only numbs parts of my body, but the rest of me, especially the "inner mother" planted deep in my being, oh - that part felt all the joy!!! There were smiles all around and people were congratulating me for doing a good job (ok everyone was wearing masks, but their eyes and voices suggested they were smiling under their masks).

The pediatric team working on Guijo. I was amazed at how quickly the
birthing room transformed into an OR as equipment were wheeled in.

As Dra. Henson continued to work on completing my delivery, the pediatric team were working on our baby, and I could hear him crying vigorously (such a wonderful, welcome noise - it was music to my ears!). My husband Oliver was recording everything, and that's another plus - the policy that allows for a birthing companion to be there and to take photos! - that to me, should be standard policy everywhere else! My husband, and his act of recording the event were important sources of comfort for me :-) But alas, some hospitals don't allow it.

Even after delivery, the quality of care continued to impress me. The nursing aides who helped me go to the bathroom in the wee hours of the morning, oh what capable angels they were! Knowledgeable and compassionate, they assisted me in a manner that allowed me to retain my dignity even in the most compromising of situations. I am amazed at the delicate mix of personal touch and professional distance they showed.

The doctors, nurses, and lactation consultants at the nursery and breast feeding room are also deserving of praise. They move briskly to get a lot of things done, but tenderly since they are handling babies, I could spend all day just watching them swaddle babies expertly. And they treat the sleep-deprived mothers with respect, patiently giving detailed answers to questions they must have heard thousands of times. They give their answers matter-of-factly, without a hint of condescension, and they make you feel comfortable enough to forget how disheveled you must look already.

Makati Medical Center is not perfect, there are some things one can complain about... but I am a fan. I have good reason to be. I had two immensely enjoyable birthing experiences there because of the amazing team of medical professionals I had the good fortune to work with. I felt very secure to be in such capable hands. Beyond the medical aspects (which I had no complaints about), I was quite impressed with the way I was treated, with genuine concern and kindness. This combination of medical and inter-personal-relationship skills, makes Makati Medical Center a winner in my book, and I give them credit for my awesome birth stories.

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